Porn Addiction Research | Why Pornography Can Ruin Your Life
As the internet continues to expand, so does its seedy underbelly. Pornography, in particular, has become a ubiquitous presence online, leaving parents and educators scrambling to shield children from its explicit content. While the sheer amount of pornography online is a cause for concern, what’s even more alarming is how easily accessible it has become. No longer […]
The 4 Detrimental Fighting Habits That Lead to Divorce Pt. 1
Why Fighting Isn’t Always a Bad Thing in a Relationship It’s a common belief that fighting in a relationship signifies trouble. Perhaps it’s because we’re taught to see love as always happy and harmonious. But disagreements and arguments are a natural part of any relationship. In fact, they can be a sign that things are going well. […]
Unveil the Hidden Meaning of Your Dreams About Your Ex-Boyfriend—And How You Can Use It to Grow!
What Do Dreams About Your Ex-Boyfriend Really Mean? Do you have dreams that just won’t stop featuring your ex-boyfriend? While it might feel like these dreams are a sign of unresolved issues, they could mean something else entirely. Dreams about your ex can tell us a lot about yourself – from how much you’ve grown […]
9 Unforgettable Date Ideas for Couples in Chicago
Date Ideas in Chicago There’s no better way to spice up your relationship and add variety than to plan an unforgettable date night in Chicago! Whether you’re looking for something classic or out of the ordinary, there are plenty of creative ways to enjoy the city with your special someone. From romantic strolls along Lake […]
A Weekend Date Guide to Houston – Exploring the City’s Best Activities and Places
Discover the Best of Houston with Our Date Guide Are you looking for some exciting and unique date ideas in Houston? Whether planning a romantic weekend away or just trying to find something special to do with the person you’ve been dating, Houston offers many activities and places that can provide an unforgettable experience. From […]
Dirty Secrets: The Hidden Toll of a Messy Home on Your Marriage and Steps to Reclaim Harmony
How a Messy Can Ruin Your Marriage & Steps to Reclaim Harmony Some of us, like myself, faced shock when we moved in together after the wedding and discovered how slovenly our bride or groom had seemingly become overnight. We hear from just as many husbands as wives about the messiness of their homes. Unfortunately, […]
Take a Break from Dating and Reassess: 8 Signs You Need to Pause
Enough is enough! You’ve experienced the highs and lows of love, and now you’re ready to take a break from relationships. It’s time to go on permanent guy-atus! If you’re fed up with the dating scene or unsure if settling down is for you yet – before you swear off guys, I encourage you to […]
How To Argue Without Killing Each Other
If people are honest about how much of the time they pay full attention to their partner’s words, 50 percent would be a generous estimate. Based on calculations from different therapists, it is more realistic to assume that each partner pays attention to their spouse around 30 percent of the time. The other 70 percent are distracted […]
How to Have Meaningful Check-Ins with Your Spouse, Questions Included
“I do.” The most romantic, hope-filled climax of any wedding ceremony is when the bride and groom utter that two-word phrase, “I do,” that launches their life together. The whole ceremony builds to those vows of commitment, and the following festivities celebrate them. Such a rich, intimate relationship as marriage deserves the pomp and circumstance […]
The No. 1 Predictor of a Successful Relationship
The No. 1 Predictor of a Successful Relationship Why is it that some couples fail while others succeed? After all, it cannot all boil down to a lack of commitment, willingness to sacrifice, or poor communication skills. What is the cherry on top that makes a relationship end or a couple divorce? And what would […]
How Dirty Fighting Can Ruin Your Relationship
Once in a while, someone of the opposite sex comes along who makes us feel sensational. Our emotions are so impressed with that person that we want to spend more time with them: they give us the feeling of love— an intimate connection. We don’t merely find that person attractive. We find that person irresistible! […]
Trauma Bonding: How To Break A Trauma Bond Relationship
Trauma bonds are addictive. They produce brain chemicals that are hard to overcome. When people get involved in relationships that are toxic, they become hooked on the good experiences their spouse can bring into their lives. Breaking that addiction is essentially overcoming the undeniably strong brain chemistry created by powerful emotional experiences. It’s almost impossible […]
How To Trust People After Trauma
Once you have experienced trauma, be it abuse as a child or a trauma bond as an adult, you might be uncomfortable with intimacy and struggle with trust. Something inside of you says you will only end up getting hurt if you fully open up and get close to someone. This conflict of worries makes […]
19 Ways To Show Your S.O. You Love Them
Most of us understand the steps needed to initiate a relationship. We utter the appropriate words, perform the right actions, maintain our hygiene, dress appropriately, exercise, etc. However, as time passes, particularly once we tie the knot or have been in a relationship for a significant duration, we tend to stop doing the things that […]
Trauma Bonding Test For Relationships- Are You In One?
Trauma Bond In Relationships- Decide If You’re In One I would like to start off this blog with a trauma bond test. This will help you work out if you’re in a trauma bonded relationship, are experiencing emotional abuse, or are still trauma-bonded to an ex-spouse. How do you know if you have a trauma […]
Trust In A Relationship: How to Foster and Maintain It
Marriages and other love relationships are special because they are uniquely and reciprocally intimate. They are supposed to be affectionate, enduring, loyal, loving, and also sexual, erotic, passionate, and romantic. The glue of of everything in a marriage rests on one word: trust! Without trust, how can respect and love truly flourish? What does lack […]
Marriage 101: Christian Counselor Marriage Advice
It’s commonly stated that a Christian marriage and non-Christian marriage have the same odds of divorce. This reality, I believe, largely stems from a lack of understanding among Christians about what the Bible teaches on covenants, vows, and commitments – all solemn pledges made in the presence of God on the wedding day. As Christian […]
Rebuilding Trust: A Roadmap to Healing After Trauma
Trust After Trauma Trauma, a devastating consequence of horrific experiences such as assault, childhood abuse, or natural disasters, can trap an individual in an emotional storm. Whether you’re among the countless adult survivors grappling with the shadows of childhood abuse, or you’ve endured emotional abuse, physical abuse, or spiritual harm in your adult relationships, you […]
7 Mistakes That Derail Your Dating Potential – and How to Avoid Them
Become Irresistible: Avoid These 7 Common Mistakes! At SimplyMidori, when it comes to singleness and dating, we are understandably vocal about men taking the reins in regards to pursuing women. However, simply allowing men to make the first move should not relegate women to follow passive roles; with this mindset, feminine attractiveness can suffer drastic […]
How to Make Tonight’s Date Exciting and Memorable: Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
How to Make Tonight’s Date Exciting and Memorable Are you stuck in a dating rut and find yourself repeating the same patterns over and over again? Dating is an opportunity for exploration, connection, and adventure. However, many people fall into the trap of sticking to what they know, staying within their comfort zones, and avoiding […]