Is Abortion an Unforgivable Sin? The Truth Revealed
A friend of mine recently asked me if the Bible considers abortion as an unforgivable sin. Some people immediately equate it with murder, which is regarded as a grave sin.
But is it the unforgivable one?
The answer is a big NO!
Let’s take a closer look and explore this issue together.
Some may say that abortion is an unforgivable sin, but there is no biblical evidence to back that up. In light of abortion as murder, we know King David committed murder and adultery but was forgiven and restored to fellowship with God. His prayer of repentance in Psalm 51 is a classic example of biblical repentance.
If David could be forgiven, we have every reason to believe that those who undergo abortions may be forgiven, too. So don’t lose hope. Repentance and forgiveness are possible through God’s grace.
As Christians, we must remember the importance of approaching the abortion debate with compassion and understanding, recognizing the emotional pain and complexity faced by individuals who have experienced or contemplated abortion.
Abortion Is No Longer Rare
Did you know that 1 in 4 women will have an abortion by age 45? Shocking, right? It’s important to remember that behind every statistic is a unique story. I know a few friends who have had abortions, and each of their experiences was different and painful.
They felt like they had no other option due to abuse, careless relationships, and pressure from multiple fronts. Sadly, it’s a decision that often leaves deep regret and sadness.
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Be Convinced of the Truth
I understand that you may be feeling a lot of sorrow and shame, but I want you to know that Jesus is ready and willing to forgive you. Don’t listen to the father of lies when he tells you that you can’t be forgiven (When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies- John 8:44). Instead, believe that “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). The moment you confess, you are immediately forgiven and made clean. Let’s take that step together now.
It’s tough dealing with the aftermath of an abortion. Fortunately, the blood of Jesus paid for your sins, and you can find comfort in that.
Confess, repent, and accept forgiveness for refreshment from the Lord (Acts 3:19).
Are you tempted to say “thanks, but no thanks” to his grace?
Resist that thought and let God’s love flow over you. That means truly grieving and repenting: godly grief leads to salvation; worldly grief leads to death. The good news is that confession and forgiveness can bring relief and refreshment from the Lord (Acts 3:19). Take heart!
After confessing and repenting, do you know that it is normal to potentially still feel weighed down by guilt and shame?
Fret not, for immersing yourself in the Word of God can set you free!
The enemy, the world, and our own negative thoughts can cloud our minds and make us feel unworthy. But don’t despair! Rehearsing verses and delving into the Bible can reinforce the truth that you are forgiven!
Want to arm yourself with more truth? Check out passages like:
Praise the Lord, my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name.
Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—
who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion,
who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.
He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever;
he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities.
For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;
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Psalms 34:17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles.
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Psalms 37:4 Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
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Psalms 50:15 and call on me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you will honor me.”
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Psalms 86:5 You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you.
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Psalms 91:3 Surely he will save you from the fowler’s snare and from the deadly pestilence.
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Proverbs 1:33 But all who listen to me will live in peace, untroubled by fear of harm.”
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Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
Reminded Yourself of the Truth Over and Over and Over
The word of God is your potent weapon against the lie that forgiveness isn’t possible, but Christian communities are a lifeline too. We all stray from the path, but our sisters in Christ remind us what’s true when we inevitably stumble. After all, Paul urged us to “bear one another’s burdens” because we cannot carry them alone (Galatians 6:2).
It’s easy to forget what really matters when the world is shouting at us nonstop. That’s where the community comes in! We were created to do life together, and when we help keep each other grounded, we’re reminded of what’s true.
And honestly? Who doesn’t want to feel like they’re part of something bigger? That’s where your sisters in Christ come in – they’re an amazing support system and a safe haven in the craziness of life.
Remember, we’re all in this together. In fact, Paul reminds us in Romans 12:5 that as believers, we’re united as one body in Christ. So lean on your tribe and let them be the refuge you need.
In addition to leaning on your sisters in the Lord, I highly recommend seeking counseling at a pregnancy care center near you. These centers offer after-abortion counseling by trained therapists to women who have undergone abortions recently or in the distant past.
Your pastor could also be a helpful resource.
The value of the help provided by a professional or a support group of women who have gone through the same experience as you cannot be overemphasized. You can get through this!
Be An Advocate for Others
You’ve been there – when the voices are loud and you feel trapped, convinced that abortion is your only option.
But guess what?
After going through it you can help others break free from that notion.
Start by getting trained at a local pregnancy center and being a powerful advocate for women facing the same choice.
Share your story in a blog or other media, and be a voice in your church.
Consider starting a small group or simply being an ally to those unexpectedly facing pregnancy. Gather your girlfriends for support and find ways to lift up women in your area who lack resources. You can make a difference!
Your story is powerful, friend.
As you seek forgiveness, refreshment, and healing, remember that you are not alone.
You can stand with Joseph and boldly declare, “You meant evil against me, but God used it for good” (Genesis 50:20). Rest assured that you are forgiven.
Now, relish in your freedom and use your experiences to uplift other women. Together, let’s choose life and embrace it with joy.
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