The Dating Dilemma
Where should we go?
This is the #1 question that couples across the world ask each other.
The default answer for most people would be to go for the classic “dinner and drinks” nighttime date.
Perhaps you’re looking to spice things up and go beyond the standard dinner/drinks combo; you’ll find that your choices are somewhat limited once the sun goes down. Not to mention after a long day of work or other obligations, it’s too easy for you and your date to start feeling exhausted as soon as the sun sets.
Enter: Daytime Dating
So, what’s the solution to this nighttime dating conundrum? Daytime dates, of course! Not only are there many activities available during the day, but you’ll also have more energy, the atmosphere will be more relaxed, and (bonus!) the cost is usually lower. Plus, you’ll have a great excuse to wear those fabulous sunglasses you just bought.
With that in mind, we present 55 daytime date ideas that will change how you think about dating, whether you’re in a new or long-term relationship. Get ready to say goodbye to the yawns and hello to the fun!
55 Day Date Ideas to Revolutionize Your Love Life
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Picnic in the park: Pack a basket full of your favorite snacks and a cozy blanket, and enjoy a leisurely afternoon surrounded by nature.
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Embark on an Architectural Adventure: Picture this: you’re strolling through the city, admiring the stunning old buildings you’ve passed a thousand times without really knowing their stories. Now’s your chance to dive into the rich history of these architectural marvels with your partner by your side. Who knows what fascinating tales you’ll uncover together?
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Unleash Your Inner Artist with a Ceramics Class: Ever wanted to reenact that iconic scene from Ghost? Well, now you can! (Sort of.) Sign up for a Saturday ceramics class and see how your time at the wheel turns out. If you like what you make, you’ll have a new décor piece for your home and a fun story to share about your creative date.
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Escape to a Community Garden: Imagine stepping into a lush, green oasis hidden amidst the concrete jungle. A community garden offers a perfect escape from the hustle and bustle of city life, giving you and your date a chance to connect and chat in a serene, tranquil setting. You might even discover a newfound appreciation for nature – and each other.
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Host a Boozy Brunch Bonanza: Why not mix things up and invite both of your friend groups to a fabulous brunch? Whether you hit up your favorite restaurant or cook up a feast at home, nothing brings people together quite like mimosas, pancakes, and a little bit of friendly competition to see who can make the most Instagram-worthy avocado toast.
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Soak Up the Sun at the Beach: A beach day is a no-brainer if you’re lucky enough to live near the coast. But don’t worry if you’re landlocked – lakeside shores can be just as fun! Grab the sunscreen, pack a picnic, and prepare for a day of sun, sand, and surf. And if you’re feeling extra adventurous, why not try paddleboarding or beach volleyball?
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Tackle a Pinterest Project Together: Admit it: you’ve got a Pinterest board full of DIY projects you’ve been meaning to try but never quite got around to. Well, now’s your chance! Choose a project you both love, gather your supplies, and get ready to unleash your inner crafters. Even if the result is a bit of a #PinterestFail, you’ll still have a blast trying – and some hilarious memories to share.
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Art gallery hopping: Spend a day exploring local art galleries, discussing your favorite pieces, and maybe even picking up a souvenir to remember the day.
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Discover Hidden Gems at a Local Bookstore: Picture this: you and your date, hand in hand, exploring the cozy nooks and crannies of your favorite independent bookstore. As you peruse the shelves, you’ll laugh about the guilty pleasures you find and bond over your shared love for specific authors. You might even find a book you’re both eager to dive into together, sparking countless future conversations and debates.
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Embark on a Cultural Adventure at a Museum: Transform your ordinary date into a mini adventure by visiting a museum together. Before you go, you can pick an exhibit that piques your interest. As you wander through the halls, you’ll get to know each other’s tastes and passions and have a great time exploring familiar and unknown territory. Plus, the quiet, contemplative atmosphere is perfect for meaningful conversation—or simply enjoying each other’s company in silence.
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Uncover the Secrets of a New Neighborhood: Why not turn your date into an urban exploration mission? If you live in a big city, there’s bound to be a neighborhood you haven’t fully discovered yet. Together, you can research a hidden gem of a restaurant, an off-the-beaten-path park, or a quirky landmark. As you wander the streets, you’ll create shared memories and maybe even find your new favorite hangout spot.
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Team Up for a Friendly Sports Battle: Why settle for dinner and a movie when you can engage in some friendly competition? Joining a local kickball league or teaming up for tennis doubles is not only a fun and exciting way to learn a new skill but also an excellent opportunity to expand your social circle. Plus, you’ll both get a good workout, which is always a bonus!
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Conquer a 5K Together: Looking for a challenge to tackle together? Sign up for a 5K race and commit to training as a team. Not only will you motivate each other to stick with it, but you’ll also create a strong foundation of trust and support. And when you finally cross the finish line, celebrate your shared accomplishment with a well-deserved reward—whether it’s a piece of furniture, new tech, or a weekend getaway, you’ll have earned it!
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Bike Ride: Rent a tandem bike or bring your own and discover a scenic route together.
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Discover the Art of Cooking: Ever dreamt of becoming a master chef or just wanted to impress your significant other with your culinary skills? Sign up for a cooking class together and learn how to create mouth-watering dishes like handmade pasta. Trust us; your next at-home date night will be even more delicious after a lesson from the pros.
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Rock Out at a Concert: Forget the big arenas and expensive tickets; small venues and record stores can host daytime or late-afternoon shows that are easy on the wallet. Keep an eye out for local festivals, too – you might just stumble upon your new favorite band.
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Dine at a Celebrity Hotspot: Have you ever wondered what it’s like to eat at a restaurant featured on TV? Choose a local joint that’s gotten rave reviews and media attention – even if it’s just from Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives. Who knows, you might end up sharing a table with a celebrity!
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Embark on a Beer Adventure: Did you know there’s more to beer than cracking open a cold one? Find a local brewery and taste their unique creations while learning about the brewing process. Remember to munch some snacks beforehand – you wouldn’t want to get too tipsy during your beer escapade.
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Conquer Your Fears at an Amusement Park: Whether you’re an adrenaline junkie or prefer to stay on solid ground, there’s no better bonding experience than facing your fears together on the scariest roller coaster the park. Plus, you’ll likely end up with a hilariously memorable photo you can proudly display in your apartment.
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Make a Difference by Volunteering: Why not spend your weekends doing something meaningful and impactful? Many organizations need volunteers on weekends, so choose a cause you both feel passionate about and give back to your community together. You never know; this might just become your favorite weekend activity.
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Visit a Farmer’s Market: Stroll through a colorful market, sample fresh produce, and maybe even pick up ingredients for a home-cooked meal later.
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Swing into Love with a Hammock Date: Who says napping can’t be part of a date? This is how you know you’re really comfortable with one another. Picture this: you and your partner, snuggled up together, swaying gently in the breeze, and drifting off to dreamland. Now that’s a love story to remember!
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Unleash Your Inner Warrior with Paintball: Have you and your partner ever tried paintball? If not, it’s time to unleash your inner warriors and take to the battlefield… or, you know, a nice wooded area. Just remember to be gentle with each other – we don’t want any tears on this date!
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Spice Things up with a New Recipe: Admit it, you’ve been making the same five meals for months now. It’s time to break free from the monotony and whip up something new and exciting! Get your hands dirty and your taste buds tingling as you and your partner dive into the world of culinary experimentation. Bon appétit!
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Indulge in a Spa Day: What’s more romantic than a couple’s massage? Arrive early to make the most of the sauna and steam room, and let your worries melt away as you and your partner indulge in some much-needed relaxation. Ahh, bliss!
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Discover Your Dream Home: Ever wanted to peek inside a swanky model home? Window shopping for your dream house can be a fun and inspiring way to daydream with your partner. Explore the latest design trends and architecture styles—especially of large, single-family properties—and let your imaginations run wild!
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Transform Your Outdoor Space: If you live together and have an outdoor space, how often do you use it? Why not spend some time sprucing it up and transforming it into a romantic haven for your next date? Clean, decorate, and fall in love all over again, right in your own backyard.
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Step into a Dance Class: It may sound cheesy, but there’s something magical about learning to dance together. Whether it’s a sultry tango or a graceful waltz, you’ll laugh, groan, and ultimately create a beautiful memory with your partner. Plus, if you’re planning a wedding, this could be the perfect way to prepare for that all important first dance!
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Trampoline Park: Unleash your inner child and bounce to your heart’s content.
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Embrace Your Inner Daredevil: Go Skydiving: Have you always dreamt of soaring through the air like a bird, but the fear of heights held you back? There’s no time like the present to conquer your fear and experience the adrenaline rush of a lifetime. You’ll have an epic story to share with friends and family for years to come.
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Embark on a Culinary Adventure: Make Reservations at a New Restaurant: Is your palate feeling bored with the same old dishes? Switch up your regular favorites and embark on a culinary adventure by finding a new place for lunch. Who knows, you might just discover your new favorite dish and restaurant.
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Discover the Secrets of Sweet Treats: Take a Factory Tour: Ever wondered how your favorite sugary snacks are made? Whether you tour the Jelly Belly factory in the Bay Area, the Ben and Jerry’s factory in Vermont, or the Albanese factory in Indiana, you’ll learn something new (and hopefully eat a few tasty treats). The inner child in you will surely rejoice!
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Unleash Your Inner Detective: Organize a Scavenger Hunt: Plan a scavenger hunt that features beloved places and things, like your first date and favorite diner. Not only will you have a blast solving the mystery, but you’ll also rekindle fond memories and create new ones along the way.
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Embark on a Scenic Hike Adventure: Are you and your partner a dynamic duo seeking adventure, or perhaps more of a laid-back, take-it-easy type of couple? Either way, a hike can be tailored to suit your shared interests – from strenuous and challenging to leisurely and relaxing. Picture yourselves conquering a trail and being rewarded with a breathtaking view from the top. A hiking date can be a memorable experience you won’t soon forget.
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Awaken Your Inner Child with Mini-Golf: When did you last play mini-golf? If you’re like most people, it’s probably been years. Why not relive those childhood memories and share some laughs as you navigate a course filled with quirky obstacles? Challenge your date to a friendly competition, with the winner getting to plan the next outing. It’s a lighthearted way to spend an afternoon and create new memories together.
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Escape Reality with a Midday Movie: Ready for a plot twist in your date routine? Try catching a matinee at your local theater. There’s something undeniably indulgent about watching a movie in the middle of the day, away from the crowds and chaos. Plus, the air-conditioning feels fantastic on a hot summer day. Go ahead and treat yourselves to popcorn for lunch – we won’t judge!
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Discover a Hidden Gem at a Local Coffee Shop: Forget the usual bar scene and immerse yourselves in the cozy atmosphere of a local coffee shop. Explore new flavors, indulge in delectable pastries, and enjoy each other’s company in a fresh setting. If the weather cooperates, seek out a cafe with outdoor seating for added ambiance. You might just find your new favorite hangout spot!
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Find your Zen with a Yoga Class: Looking for a unique way to bond and recharge? Consider taking a yoga class together. If you’re new to the practice, start with a beginner’s lesson and help each other master the poses. Laughter and encouragement will ensue as you navigate this new experience together. After class, continue the good vibes by grabbing breakfast or brunch. Watch for outdoor yoga classes during the summer months for an even more refreshing experience.
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Hit the Road: Plan a Quick Road Trip: Feeling the itch to get out of town for a day? Plan a quick road trip to a destination no more than two hours away. Grab lunch, explore the sights, and enjoy the freedom of the open road before heading back home.
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Travel Back in Time: Re-Create a Memorable Date: Reignite the spark in your relationship by recreating a memorable date. It could be a home-cooked version of your first date meal or a drive back to that special lookout point. Either way, you’ll be flooded with warm, fuzzy feelings.
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Roller Skating: Glide Your Way Down Memory Lane: Find a local rink or take to your neighborhood streets and glide your way down memory lane. Why not dress up in retro-chic clothing for added nostalgia? You’ll be reminded of the carefree days of your youth while having a blast.
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Stay In: Embrace the Art of Doing Nothing: Allow yourself to stay in your pajamas all day and binge-watch your current Netflix obsession. Order your favorite food for delivery and fully embrace the art of doing nothing. After all, everyone deserves a lazy day every now and then.
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Embark on a Wine Tasting Adventure: Imagine sipping the finest wines while basking in the picturesque beauty of vineyards. If you’re fortunate enough to live near a vineyard or tasting room, it’s time for an unforgettable wine-tasting experience. Safety comes first – split a Lyft to and from the venue and let the grape-infused memories flow.
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Discover the Wonders of an Aquarium: Step into an enchanting underwater world at your local aquarium. There’s something magical about wandering through the aquatic exhibits just after the doors open. The earlier you go, the fewer crowds you’ll encounter, leaving you free to marvel at the mesmerizing marine life.
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Get your Game Face On: Unleash your inner sports fan and cheer on your favorite team, whether a professional baseball game or a college basketball tournament. Go all out with team apparel and face paint, and indulge in classic stadium fares like nachos and hot dogs. You might just become the ultimate two-person cheering section!
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Embark on a Culinary Journey: Why dine at just one restaurant when you can plan your very own restaurant crawl? Handpick a different course from each establishment featuring your favorite dishes, and create your ultimate dining experience. Kick off the night with a visit to a lively bar for some pre-dinner drinks.
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Sail Away on a Nautical Adventure: Channel your inner Jackie Kennedy and JFK by taking a sailing lesson together. If you live near the coast, it’s time to hoist the sails and set off on the open water. Feel the sea breeze in your hair, and let the waves carry you away on a romantic adventure.
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Embark on a Kayaking Adventure: Whether you’re an experienced kayaker or a complete novice, there’s nothing like the thrill of paddling through the water on a sunny day. Go solo or team up with your date for a fun, exhilarating experience that will spark conversation and laughter. Just make sure one of you knows how to steer!
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Discover Culinary Delights at a Farmers Market: Strolling through a bustling farmers market is an excellent opportunity to bond over your shared love of food. Sample delicious treats, share stories about your favorite meals, and engage in some fascinating people-watching. And if you want to score some extra brownie points, why not cook up a tasty lunch together using your freshly bought ingredients?
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Unwind with a Charming Picnic: Nothing says romance like a quintessential picnic date. Prepare a delicious cheese board or pack some scrumptious sandwiches, and find the perfect spot under a tree to lay down a comfy blanket. As you relax and catch up, don’t forget those all-important cheese knives – you’ll need a sharp one for hard cheeses like parmesan and cheddar and another for spreadable delights like goat’s cheese. You wouldn’t want to mix them up now, would you?
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Unearth Treasures at a Flea Market: There’s something undeniably exciting about hunting for unique finds at a flea market. Challenge your date to see who can discover the most intriguing items at the best prices. Who knows, you might stumble upon a hidden gem that becomes the perfect conversation piece for years.
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Soak Up the Sun by a Pool: On a hot summer day, what could be better than lounging by a pool with your date? Claim a couple of chairs at your local community pool, or look into getting a day pass at a nearby hotel. And if you’re fortunate enough to have a pool in your backyard, well, you’re already one step ahead – just make sure you’ve got enough sunscreen!
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Roll Back the Years with a Bowling Date: It’s time to dust off those bowling shoes and rediscover the joy of this classic pastime. A bowling date provides the perfect balance of friendly competition and casual conversation, making it an ideal choice for those looking to rekindle old memories or create new ones. Just remember, it’s all about having fun – even if you end up in the gutter more often than not!
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Seek Out the Best Views: Embark on a mission to find the most breathtaking vantage points in your town or city. Climb to the highest peak, venture to the edge of a cliff, or admire the skyline from a rooftop bar. Capture the moment with photos, and don’t forget to snap some epic selfies along the way!
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Unleash Your Inner Detective: Put your minds together and tackle a challenging puzzle. Choose one that features a picture that resonates with one or both of your interests and let the fun begin. Serve coffee and pastries to fuel your puzzle-solving efforts, and celebrate your teamwork once the final piece is in place.
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Happy Dating!