4 Relationship Myths That Lead to Bickering & Divorce
Divorce Myths Debunked: Unraveling the Truth About the End of Marriage Countless couples are currently caught in the midst of marital turmoil. Perhaps, in reading this, you also find yourself amidst this struggle. You probably entered marriage with soaring hopes, never anticipating a life of misery; you cherished dreams of unparalleled happiness in matrimony. No […]
What Is Love Bombing? 9 Signs In A New Relationship
Am I unknowingly love bombing or being love bombed? Love bombing is a cunning tactic employed by individuals who bombard you with overwhelming displays of attention and affection early. While initially, it may appear positive in a romantic relationship, this insidious phenomenon can lead to gaslighting and abusive behavior. Experts in psychology warn that narcissists […]
Redefining Self-Love: Replacing Self-Esteem with Compassion
Why Compassion, Not Self-Esteem, is the Key to Loving Yourself Self-Acceptance Self-Care Self-Compassion Self-Love Self-Esteem Self-Worth Self-Intimacy In the self-esteem paradigm, your opinion of yourself is contingent on how well you measure up against others. Still, your self-image is as changeable as the weather — you feel confident in the morning, and then someone else […]
Busting the Myth: Is Divorce Really Better for the Kids?
It’s no secret that many young adults dream of marriage, but the pain they experienced from their parent’s divorce has made them anxious about taking the plunge. The prospect of marriage can seem scary, but fear not! Despite being statistically more likely to repeat our parents’ mistakes, we are not doomed to do so. There […]
The 4 Detrimental Fighting Habits That Lead to Divorce Pt. 4
Don’t Let These Fighting Patterns Destroy Your Relationships Relationships are like plants – they require care and attention to thrive. However, sometimes couples unknowingly engage in behaviors that can slowly erode their connection, leading to resentment and pain. This blog series explores four destructive patterns that can wreak havoc on even the strongest relationships. Part […]
The 4 Detrimental Fighting Habits That Lead to Divorce Pt. 3
Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Relationship with These Fighting Patterns Are you tired of the same old fights with your partner that leave you frustrated and hurt? It’s time to break the cycle and learn how to communicate effectively. This blog series will dive into four fighting patterns that can damage your relationship beyond repair. Part 1: Escalation – […]
The 4 Detrimental Fighting Habits That Lead to Divorce Pt. 2
The 4 Detrimental Fighting Habits That Lead to Divorce Pt. 2 Four Fighting Habits That Will Lead to Divorce: Part 1: Escalation Part 2: Invalidation (You’re Here!) Part 3: Negative Interpretations Part 4: Withdrawal and Avoidance Hey there, readers! Welcome back to the series on the four fighting habits that will lead to divorce. […]
The 4 Detrimental Fighting Habits That Lead to Divorce Pt. 1
Why Fighting Isn’t Always a Bad Thing in a Relationship It’s a common belief that fighting in a relationship signifies trouble. Perhaps it’s because we’re taught to see love as always happy and harmonious. But disagreements and arguments are a natural part of any relationship. In fact, they can be a sign that things are going well. […]
Dirty Secrets: The Hidden Toll of a Messy Home on Your Marriage and Steps to Reclaim Harmony
How a Messy Can Ruin Your Marriage & Steps to Reclaim Harmony Some of us, like myself, faced shock when we moved in together after the wedding and discovered how slovenly our bride or groom had seemingly become overnight. We hear from just as many husbands as wives about the messiness of their homes. Unfortunately, […]
How to Have Meaningful Check-Ins with Your Spouse, Questions Included
“I do.” The most romantic, hope-filled climax of any wedding ceremony is when the bride and groom utter that two-word phrase, “I do,” that launches their life together. The whole ceremony builds to those vows of commitment, and the following festivities celebrate them. Such a rich, intimate relationship as marriage deserves the pomp and circumstance […]
The No. 1 Predictor of a Successful Relationship
The No. 1 Predictor of a Successful Relationship Why is it that some couples fail while others succeed? After all, it cannot all boil down to a lack of commitment, willingness to sacrifice, or poor communication skills. What is the cherry on top that makes a relationship end or a couple divorce? And what would […]
19 Ways To Show Your S.O. You Love Them
Most of us understand the steps needed to initiate a relationship. We utter the appropriate words, perform the right actions, maintain our hygiene, dress appropriately, exercise, etc. However, as time passes, particularly once we tie the knot or have been in a relationship for a significant duration, we tend to stop doing the things that […]
Trauma Bonding Test For Relationships- Are You In One?
Trauma Bond In Relationships- Decide If You’re In One I would like to start off this blog with a trauma bond test. This will help you work out if you’re in a trauma bonded relationship, are experiencing emotional abuse, or are still trauma-bonded to an ex-spouse. How do you know if you have a trauma […]
Trust In A Relationship: How to Foster and Maintain It
Marriages and other love relationships are special because they are uniquely and reciprocally intimate. They are supposed to be affectionate, enduring, loyal, loving, and also sexual, erotic, passionate, and romantic. The glue of of everything in a marriage rests on one word: trust! Without trust, how can respect and love truly flourish? When Trust In […]
Marriage 101: Christian Counselor Marriage Advice
It’s commonly stated that a Christian marriage and non-Christian marriage have the same odds of divorce. This reality, I believe, largely stems from a lack of understanding among Christians about what the Bible teaches on covenants, vows, and commitments – all solemn pledges made in the presence of God on the wedding day. As Christian […]
Rebuilding Trust: A Roadmap to Healing After Trauma
Trust After Trauma Trauma, a devastating consequence of horrific experiences such as assault, childhood abuse, or natural disasters, can trap an individual in an emotional storm. Whether you’re among the countless adult survivors grappling with the shadows of childhood abuse, or you’ve endured emotional abuse, physical abuse, or spiritual harm in your adult relationships, you […]
Unlock the Scriptural Definition of Marriage
What Scriptural Marriage Means It’s common for those who believe to have questions about marriage; what does the Bible say about this sacred union? Is a ceremony necessary or just a man-made tradition? What makes a marriage covenant valid in the Lord God’s eyes? Before diving into the answers, let’s explore what the Bible says […]
The Ultimate Guide to Couples Therapy: Find Your Relationship’s Secret Weapon!
I preface this article with this information to say, “Relationships are hard!” Joshua and I usually get along just fine, but we practically spent every moment together for most of our marriage. In this scenario, even the best of friends can run into conflicts that seem impossible to resolve. It’s safe to say that one […]
41 Unique Valentine’s Day Ideas When You Have Children
Looking for fun and unique Valentine’s Day ideas when you have children? From photoshoots to movies and family-friendly activities, we’ve got you covered!
Why Married Women Need Sex
In marriage, sex plays a crucial role in connecting emotionally, experiencing pleasure, and maintaining harmony. Despite its importance, the significance of sex for married women can sometimes be underestimated. However, understanding why married women need sex is essential not just for solid, healthy marriages but also for their health and wellness. Why do married women […]
