How Can I Maintain Sexual Attraction Over Time?

Sexual attraction is a vital part of romantic relationships, but it often experiences natural ebbs and flows over time. If you’ve ever noticed shifts in your desire or wondered how to keep that spark alive, you’re not alone—this is a common concern for many couples. Understanding that fluctuations in attraction are normal can alleviate some pressure and help you […]

Practicing Spiritual Intimacy In A Relationship

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Did you know that intimacy manifests in various forms, such as emotional, physical, intellectual, creative, and experiential? At its heart, intimacy is that deep sense of closeness and connection we all seek in our relationships. Today, we’ll focus on a particularly profound yet often overlooked type of intimacy: Spiritual intimacy. What is spiritual intimacy? Spiritual […]

How To Have Sensational Sex!

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Extraordinary sex is all about experiencing a wide range of sensations in your body. While it might seem obvious, improving your sex life often leads you to focus on trying different positions or exploring fantasies. But have you ever considered how to make yourself more sensitive to the sensations within your body? Engaging in sexual […]

What Destroys Feminine Energy? Is Society the Culprit?

The feminist movement of the 1960s and 70s was a pivotal moment in the fight for women’s equality, breaking through societal norms and empowering women to assert their place in a patriarchal world. Despite these significant strides, many women today are experiencing a troubling sense of diminished vitality. Biological sex influences socio-sexual attitudes and behaviors, […]

The Absolute Best Sex Toys For Couples

Intimacy is a cornerstone of any thriving relationship, and sometimes, adding a touch of adventure can reignite or enhance the spark. Whether you’re looking to explore new sensations, deepen your connection, or simply have fun, the world of sex toys offers endless possibilities for couples. From sleek vibrators to innovative gadgets designed for two, there’s […]

9 Foreplay Tips That Make Sex Better

What Is Foreplay? Foreplay can be anything enjoyable that you do at any time. People and couples have different preferences, so why not consider anything pleasurable in your definition of foreplay? Your definition of foreplay could include everything you engage in that is enjoyable, right up to intercourse. Having fun with foreplay can be exciting, […]

19 Examples of Intimacy That Will Forever Transform Your Relationships

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The closeness you share with someone shapes the nature of your relationship with them, and the forms of intimacy we encounter set the parameters for our relationship or our anticipations of it. For example, you probably have: –Emotional intimacy with friends and family (people that have known you for some time), where you discussed your […]

A Curated List of the Best Intimacy Books

At Simply Midori, we deeply value your intimacy and the well-being of your relationship. It’s not uncommon for couples to reach out to us seeking a how-to guide to have better sex life or give them solutions to fix their sexual struggles. However, what many couples discover along the way is that their sex life […]

6 Best Sexual Retreats for Couples Around the World

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In today’s fast-paced world, we have the latest smartphones, beauty treatments, and endless remedies to keep us going. Yet, something crucial is often missing—deep connection. Couples retreats offer a chance to step away from the everyday hustle and focus on what truly matters: intimacy and connection. Retreats address our essential need for love, intimacy, and […]

Sex Retreats For Singles vs. Couples: How To Choose What You Need

Choosing the right sex retreat is crucial because it can profoundly impact your personal growth or relationship dynamics. Whether you’re considering a retreat for self-improvement or as a couple looking to strengthen your bond, understanding the differences between retreats designed for singles, intimacy retreats, and those for couples will help you select the best option tailored to your needs. Sex […]

Sex Retreat: Your Ultimate Guide Before Choosing

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Imagine a place where you can step away from daily distractions and focus entirely on enriching your intimacy and exploring your desires. That’s what a sex retreat offers—a specialized environment designed to foster deeper connections, enhance sexual wellness, develop an erotic connection, and address personal and relational goals. In this guide, we will delve into […]

9 Bedtime Rituals for Couples- Sleep Your Way to A Happier Relationship

For married couples, nights can easily become mundane, with endless debates on who should do the laundry while conning each other into taking the next turn at feeding the dog. But why not flip this script and add a bit of spark back into your relationship by incorporating a simple bedtime routine? Bedtime routines for […]

Intellectual Intimacy | What Is It & How To Get It?

A couple walking outside together talking and working on their marriage. They are showing us how we too can cultivate intellectual intimacy.

Ever had a conversation that left you feeling more connected than any embrace could? That’s the magic of intellectual intimacy. In a world often focused on physical and emotional closeness, we sometimes overlook the profound bond that forms when two minds engage deeply. This article dives into the essence of intellectual intimacy, shedding light on how sharing ideas, beliefs, […]

Too Busy for Sex? Why It Might Be Time to Slow Down

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In today’s fast-paced world, many couples find themselves too busy for sex. Despite a deep love for each other, the desire for intimacy often dwindles amidst hectic schedules, stress, child-rearing, and sheer exhaustion. This lack of sexual activity within a romantic relationship can indicate deeper issues affecting overall relational health and emotional and physical intimacy. […]

Unlock the Secrets to Deeper Physical Intimacy!

Intimacy is not solely physical or purely emotional. It’s a multi-dimensional concept that intricately weaves together all four facets of human nature: the physical; the intellectual; the emotional; and the spiritual. Hence, it becomes crucial to comprehend how intimacy influences and is influenced by these four aspects of our being. In this blog post, we will delve deeper into the physical […]

How to Fix Intimacy Issues

Do you ever find yourself longing for that deep, soulful connection with your partner—the kind that makes you feel understood, cherished, and truly close? Yet, as relationships evolve, it’s not uncommon to encounter challenges that erode this intimacy and the overall health of the relationship, leaving couples feeling distant and disconnected. These issues can strain […]

How to Create Instant Intimacy: The Questions You Need to Be Asking!

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How to Create Instant Emotional Intimacy Our blog series on intimacy aims to provide tools for enhancing your relationship’s intimacy. We’ve previously discussed its definition, types and shared valuable resources. Today, we delve into questions that build emotional intimacy in relationships. Why Questions? Romantic relationships bring immense joy, comfort, and support. But there’s something even […]

23 Mistakes Men Make While Having Sex

Alright, let’s talk about sex. It’s that amazing, messy, and sometimes confusing part of life that we all experience in one way or another. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting out, the truth is, sex can be a bit of a minefield. And hey, we’ve all been there – those moments where things don’t quite go as planned, or […]

Everything You Need To Know About Sexual Arousal

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Embark on a journey through the intricacies of human sexual response, from physiological to psychological dimensions. Explore pioneering models by Masters and Johnson, Singer, Basson, and Toates, shedding light on arousal, desire, and intimacy. Delve into hormonal influences, cognitive factors, and the enigmatic realm of sexual arousal.

16 Things You NEED To Stop To Get More Sex

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Discover the secrets to reigniting passion in your relationship. Learn what not to do, from relentless pursuit to negative comments. With candid advice and practical tips, this blog offers a roadmap to better communication and intimacy, helping couples navigate the complexities of love and desire.